All about dating and courtship
A common statement by Filipino men said to Filipinas: Gusto kitang ligawan. If she says anything that is not a no, you have the go-ahead to try your hand at winning her affection. You have to visit her at home in the evening and talk to her in the sala (living room) with her parents watching nearby. Don’t dare draw close to her or they will think you are manyakis (a sex maniac). If she says no, then she is definitely not interested.(You can only go out in broad daylight.) You can walk in the park or some other public place.Your goal here is to endear yourself to the chaperone so that she’ll allow you some time alone with the woman of your dreams.• There are no boundaries or ethics in this type of relationship.Thus, what initially starts off as French kissing quickly accelerates to petting, fondling, and then full-blown sexual intimacy.
Thus, the relationship ends with at least one of the individuals feeling devastated and wounded especially because of soul ties that were created from sexual intimacy.
On this Valentine’s Day week I am attempting to give some biblical clarity on this all-important subject for the sake of our local churches and for the sanctity and safety of the next generation who will soon have their own families.
The following are guidelines that best fit young people but many of the principles still apply to older and more mature single adults looking for a mate.
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If her parents approve of your behavior, then maybe they’ll allow her to go out with you if you politely ask them for permission.