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There are a lot of problems in todays society including this but I do think it's a healthy alternative to shoring around your local bar.
As a recovering sex addict, I can attest to the sad reality that cybersex is not just "good dirty fun." It is highly addictive, grossly underestimated, and progressively fatal.
In those cases, there is absolutely no danger of STDs.
I don't agree that cybersex leads to "depression" or "personal neglect" (you show no sources or evidence for this).
Only you know if you are doing it compulsively or if its just a healthy release.
It's just masturbation with fantasy enhancement from another person (and all men fantasize while they're masturbating anyway).
Speaking of cybersex, there are lot of people that gets addicted to it. I don't know anything about your situation of course, but one place to start is to take the Great Sex Assessment and see if it gives you some insight into what might be going on with you.
On the other hand, it is a ground for exploration, experimentation in the safe environment and learning for some. Which leads us to the conclusion that while safe in one area (STD's and pregnancy) cybersex can be dangerous in other (addiction and neglecting the sex activities away from computer). If your life is completely out of control, you might check out the Meadows programs at have several fantastic treatment facilities for all kinds of sexual addictions. I think there are many people who have cybersex that have no intention of ever meeting the person they're having cybersex with.
It appears that men and women are using the Internet equally for "cybering".
People engaging in cybersex have a tendency to underestimate the importance and effect on their lives.
For me, it was the crowing touch to a lifelong sex addiction, ranging from magazines, videos, DVDs, strip clubs, prostitutes, online pornography, and ultimately swingers sites and anonymous sexual encounters.