Dating an old boyfriend after divorce
I’m one of those people who rarely give second chances.
You should never start a sentence with the words, “Remember that time when….” Leave the past behind you and don’t talk about old (bad) memories.
Before you jump back into the old relationship routine, it’s important you and your ex get out and try new things together.
If you had plans you never did before (such as skydiving or camping in the desert), then now’s your chance to do so.
In the course of recovering from a painful divorce, you may also discover that it is not unusual for a woman to go through a number of brief sexual affairs. With some, there's a flurry of sexual activity, followed by periods of celibacy - and maybe a "special steady" for a while.
This kind of activity is sometimes necessary, and is definitely a part of the healing process as some women rebuild their self-esteem.
During this phase, you may meet someone special who makes you feel valued and important.